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Dismotivation (English Version)

Lets learn from children, when they work and succeeded, we praise them. They will be happy moreover by giving them a present, they will be joy full. Sometimes we forget to praise them, yet somehow a child will find a way to seek our attention so we could see his achievement. They always want to show you their work or their exam results, they dont care if we were busy or we were resting, they would just interrupted us to seek our attention so their work can get an appraisal. 

So often, parents also used this situation to motivate their children to study more serious.

Sometimes when our children want our praise, they study hard and it will elevate their spirit if the parents promise them with a present. Small gift could give many benefits. Many shopping malls reached a success to the public, by offering discounted sale price plus some gift with it

Thus a motivation is needed to be given to the people, not only to the children. A motivation and appraisal is needed to be given to our employee, to the directors and even to ourselves to increase its productivity. Can you imagine that you are in the situation where our environment never appraised and compliment our works, we only heard critics, abusive words, to be scolded and mortified. Are we able to produce a maximum result?  Even if you have a strong personality, but if you are in this negative environment every day, people will be burned out. Criticism could throw out our motive and spirit to produce a maximum result, to some people can become apathetic since they never receive any compliment from anybody.

Fruit trees will also produce a good both in quality and quantity if they receive lots of praising too, arent they.

Our God also needed praising from His follower, The Lord crowned above our praising and the Lords command and His blessing for His people who are always glorify Him in their life.

l But thou art holy, O thou that inhabitest the praises of Israel (Psalm 22:4)

A good environment is to be created, where all the people need to respect each others work even that work is the simplest. Do not make the work or service environment filled with negative criticism and scolding. The longer it happened, even the greatest people could be destroyed their spirit and strength if the environment not supporting their progress.

Psalm 71:7-24

(7) I am as a wonder unto many; but Thou art my strong refuge

(8) Let  my mouth be filled with Thy praise and with Thy honour all the day

(9) Cast me not off in the time of old age; forsake me not when  my strength faileth

(10) For mine enemies speak against me; and they that lay wait for my soul take counsel together

(11) Saying, God hath forsaken him; persecute and take him; for there is none to deliver

(12) O God, be not far from me; O my God, make haste for my help

(13) Let them be confounded and consumed that are adversaries to my soul; let them be covered with reproach and dishonor that seek my hurt

(14) But I will hope continually, and will yet praise thee more and more

(15) my mouth shall shew forth Thy righteousness and Thy salvation all the day; for I know not the numbers thereof

(16) I will go in the strength of the Lord God; I will make mention of Thy righteousness, even of thine only

(17) O God, thou has taught me from my youth: and hit her to have I declared Thy wonderous works

(18) Now also when I am old and grayheaded, O God forsake me not; until I have shewed Thy strength unto this generation, and Thy power to every one that is to come

(19)  Thy righteousness also, O God, is very high, who hast done great things: O God who is like unto Thee!

(20) Thou, which hast shewed me great and sore troubles, shalt quicken me again, and shalt bring me up again from the depths of the earth

(21) Thou shalt increase my greatness, and comfort me on every side

(22) I will also praise Thee with the psaltery, even in Thy truth, o my God: unto Thee will I sing wht the harp, O thou Holy one of Israel

(23) My lips shall greatly rejoice when I sing unto Thee; and my soul, which Thou hast redeemed

(24) My tongue also shall talk of Thy righteousness all the day long: for they are confounded, for they are brought unto shame that seek my hurt.

Husbands and wives, how long ago did you praise each other? Is your life filled only with duties and liabilities without any compliment?  You might feel that your spouse will be snob too much touted. Good if they become big head of your praising and then switch the head hahahaha… if your spouse asked whats going on with all the praising, just send my regards to them. Be in peace with your spouses, dont praise others spouses, see each other in a positive way and start praise them. If your life only filled with liabilities without any praising, you will soon feel stress out and will become a grumpy one. Please try to put back the praising like when you dated, than your life is more beautiful even though its stiffed at first. Hug your spouse (not others), many people prove that a hug will relax our muscle and decrease stress level. If your stress level is decreased, I believe that your life will be better. Fatigue is could be one of the reasons that you never praise and hugged to each other, so our loved ones feel not being loved, lacked of caring and attention from us. As busy as it is, that would not be the reason for you to erase your praise and hug to your loved ones whether to your spouse and to your children, who also need it. Practice it at home, not at the office, it will mislead to the wrong person.


Elia Paul Ang for  Inspirative Power Ministry.

Translate by: MV for IPM

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